Comments on: Updated – Patrick Poteat Brutally Strangled His Wife

By: Charles

Charles — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 21:22:00 +0000

First off he knew what she did for a living when he married her , second she was a good,kind and beautiful person . Alot of girls get caught up in that lifestyle and that wasnt the case with her.She was still focused on her schooling and soccer. She was not one of them girls that left the club with any guys she was not a HOE.Dont judge her for how she got her money just like I wont judge you for sitting on your ass living off your man/husband ,she didnt marry dude cause he was in the marines she didnt need anything from his ass. She will always be missed and you people talking shit on here need to stop disrespecting her memory . You talk about her being a dancer ,well she didnt get killed by just some random dude one night after leaving work . So fuck what you say!!!!!!!!!!

By: Tisha

Tisha — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 18:29:00 +0000

I dont know this girl at all but it is a very sad story and really broke my heart that people would sit there and protect/say that sick son of a mf was a good guy he may have been at one time but no good guy is going to kill someone.. If he is going to sit there and admit to it then he must of did it because if you didnt do it then why would you admit to doing it smdh… and seriously all you stupid immature haters need to let that sweet innocent girl rest .. hate when people want to talk shit about someone that cant speak or protect themselves because they are in heaven … people need to grow the fuck up … so what if she was a stripper she wasnt no damn drug dealer she wasnt out there dealing children drugs she shaked her ass on stage i dont see the big deal I dont care what you people say she was innocent and a VICTIM dont talk shit about her ..

By: Rwkingusa

Rwkingusa — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 15:16:00 +0000

I won’t even bother posting about that scum bag, but rather focus on the girl that was murdered at the age of 19. May she rest in peace.

By: friendofafriend

friendofafriend — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 04:58:00 +0000

I understand that you are continuously trying to “one-up” the other people on here by your rude and outrageous remarks, but if you stepped back and took a minute to realize what you are saying I’d like to think that you would feel pretty remorseful. Regardless of what Kalyn did for a living at the time of her death, she was still a person who had so much life ahead of her, and her own husband took that from her in a very horrifying way. So, act like a lady and quit running off at the mouth and consider those who are grieving for their loved one.

By: Captain Obvious

Captain Obvious — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 22:42:00 +0000

A good guy. You mean except for the part where he strangled his wife? WTF?

As far as stripping, that was probably a bad decision on her part but they didn’t have kids so who cares? Having worked around strip clubs for quite a while during the late eighties and early nineties I can tell you that while there are some girls who enjoy it and make good money, there is a larger portion who are addicted to drugs and alcohol and it’s the only thing they feel they can do. Not a very healthy job for most of them.

As far as the rest of the comment you obviously didn’t read very many posts on my blog if any at all so your argument has no validity anyway.

By: Deena

Deena — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 16:04:00 +0000

You are a freakin idiot!

By: guest

guest — Thu, 28 Apr 2011 15:16:00 +0000

I agree Pat was a good guy, the author of this blog seems to be in love with the deceased….I mean read the blog. He tries to describe her as this wholesome sweet girl who just wanted to go to college and UNFORTUANTELY she had to be a stripper…..which to say the least is untrue. When her and Pat got married she couldve gone to college easily as the wife of a military man without even having a job, she didn’t need to strip, yet she applies for a stripper ok card as soon as she gets out to cali? riiiiiiight. Notice the authors description of how long has been doing this and the REASON WHY….Natalie Holloway. Sounds like we have a lonely guy being in love with beautiful deceased women to me. This is just his way to vent on how much he loves them and maybe he thinks they will somehow read this and that he will be the guy that couldve treated them right when they were alive. Grow up, stop living your twisted fantasy by degrading men and giving them motives like “being jealous of a stripper lifestyle. Yeah i guess Pat was just so mad he couldnt get out there every night and shake his ass and show his tits and get paid by men and women, so he killed her. sounds like a really intelligent observation and motive to me. OH NO I’VE BEEN WARNED ABOUT THE CAPSLOCKS KEY DON’T SMITE ME CAPTAIN “IN LOVE WITH DEAD GIRLS” OBVIOUS.

By: Logical

Logical — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 19:25:00 +0000

Patrick * was* a good person he was born into this world just like everyone else on here posting hateful things. things happen all i know to be true is he picked up this girl at a strip club while he was tdy and ended up eloping with her and moved her to cali and until you are in her or his shoes try not to judge you all need to step back and say what did you do to help your so called best friend when she called begging for help to go home. Nothing! her fate happened the only thing we are suppose to do after being born is die when, where, how is to be determined

By: writenow

writenow — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:57:00 +0000

If a “Good guy” means he murdered the woman he claimed to love and cherish, quickly, sure. However, strangulation murders are horrid way to die. In addition to the several minutes it takes for victims to die…..they have to look at their murderers the whole time.

By: Melissa

Melissa — Thu, 11 Nov 2010 22:48:00 +0000

15 to life. a freakin slap on the wrist basically. pathetic.

By: zuttofaery

zuttofaery — Thu, 11 Nov 2010 02:06:00 +0000

Alright, so what was his sentence. I know it’s not death, even though it should be. Fucking bullshit judicial system.

By: zuttofaery

zuttofaery — Thu, 11 Nov 2010 02:04:00 +0000

See, the sex game would make sense, you know, except for the fact that when you strangle someone they pass out. And THEN you have to continue to strangle them til THEY STOP BREATHING. And he sat there and watched it happen. You don’t accidentally keep strangling someone when they’re already passed out…Just. You know. Throwing that out there.

By: Susan

Susan — Tue, 09 Nov 2010 20:02:00 +0000

HE MURDERED HIS WIFE!!!!

By: amanda M :) ily kdo

amanda M :) ily kdo — Tue, 09 Nov 2010 16:13:00 +0000

HOW DO WE KNOW THATS TRUE??? HAVE U NOT READ THE ARTICLES?? OR SEEN THA VIDEO THAT USED TO BE ON HERE?? IT SHOWS IT DUMBASS! SOMEONE THAT TEXTS HIS SRGT. TO FORCE ENTRY TO THERE APT. CUS THATS WHERE ULL FIND HER BODY…FUCKIN DID IT!! THATS CALLED A CONFESSION CASE YOU DIDNT KNO. && ANOTHER THING… I DO KNOW WAT KIND OF PERSON SHE WAS…AND SHE DIDNT DESERVE THIS AT ALL. PEOPLE LIKE KALYN…GOOD THINGS ARE SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN TO THEM. SOMEONE WHO WULD GIVE N GIVE N GIVE TO OTHERS IN EVERY SHAPE & FORM DESERVES ONLY THE BEST IN LIFE!! WAT PATRICKS BITCH ASS DID TO HER…..IS HORRIBLE..I CANT DESCRIBE THE ANGER I HAVE TOWARDS HIM. TO ALL OF U WHO THINK HE DIDNT DO THIS….FUCK URSELF. SHE DAMN SURE DIDNT DO IT TO HERSELF… OPEN UR FUCKIN EYES N REALIZE THAT! DO UR RESERCH! PATRICK POTEAT U WILL ROT IN HELL FOR THA BEAUTIFUL LIFE YOU TOOK AWAY FROM US!!!!!! UR AS MUCH SKUM TO ME AS U ARE TO UR FELLOW PRISON MATES! UR GONNA HAVE A BLAST IN THERE!!! & TO UR FAM….I DONT BLAME YOU FOR NOT WANTING TO BELIEVE THAT HE DID THIS..I WOULD B ASHAMED HE WAS PART OF MY FAMILY TO. U CAN HAVE HIS BACK ALL YOU WANT AND DEFEND HIM.. BUT I HOPE YOU GO TO SLEEP EVERYNIGHT KNOWING THAT UR WRONG. THAT GOES FOR EVERYBODY THAT DEFENDS HIM ACTUALLY!!! KALYN BABY…FUCK THESE PEOPLE WHO SHOW KNO SYMPATHY! WHO JUS TALK THAT SHIT! U KNO ALL THA TRUE PEOPLE WHO GOT YOU BACK WILL FIGHT FOR YOU FOREVER! WE MISS & LOVE YOU!! & CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU AGAIN! MY THOUGHTS WILL FOREVER ECHO YOUR NAME!!!! ILY

By: Deena

Deena — Sat, 30 Oct 2010 13:04:00 +0000

I am not sure how I missed this comment 4 months ago. But goofor you for standing up for your girlfriend and telling the world the good things about her. Alot of time the focus does go ont he victim, in an attempt to find a reason a person would just up a kill some one one day. But it is never the victim’s fault. Because she was a stripper is irrelevant, it was a living period.

Just wanted to let you know I supported you.

By: Deena

Deena — Sat, 30 Oct 2010 13:04:00 +0000

that’s supposed to be “good for you” not goofor…. LOL

By: jj

jj — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 15:25:00 +0000

Yep, that’s the slag.

By: Llt

Llt — Sun, 24 Oct 2010 23:59:00 +0000

This is hilarious coming from you! Aren’t you the one who was defending a self confessed child killer and saying the child’s mother [who was not at home] did it?

By: criminal justice graduate

criminal justice graduate — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 20:55:00 +0000

I agree with you long. My cousin Tashi was a stripper in Florida. She was killed in June 2010. I used to believe it was fine, until someone close to you is killed. Besides in those dark strip clubs, you can’t tell if the women are really that pretty or not. Strobelight honeys is what they are called in my area.

By: criminal justice graduate

criminal justice graduate — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 20:48:00 +0000

You said you know both of them. What proof do you have of her background? Is it true or heresay to get a man off?

By: Tiffany Miles27

Tiffany Miles27 — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 20:25:00 +0000

well fuck your cuz and you bitch,how would you like it if someone killed you dumm ass bitch

By: Tiffany Miles27

Tiffany Miles27 — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 20:23:00 +0000

you know wat you are going to fucking hell,he killed her so i hope a man in prison dose him the same way he did her and rape his punk ass,and god will see that her fucking stays in prison

By: Tiffany Miles27

Tiffany Miles27 — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 20:18:00 +0000

that ant no fucking accident,how could you say that would you wont that to happen to you?she was only 19 teen he knew the work she did so fall back

By: pheonix

pheonix — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 18:36:00 +0000

HOW DARE ALL OF YOU SAD,PATHATIC,SICK SOB’S…. FIRST OF ALL JUSTICE WAS SERVED.KALYN DENISE DARLA OBARR MAY YOU NOW REST IN PARADISE MY SWEET ANGEL.YOUR LIFE HERE ON EARTH WAS SHORT BUT YOU GAVE ALL A HEAVY IMPACT(AS WE CAN ALL SEE YOU STILL HAVE PLENTY OF HATERS,GO THE F@#% ON ALREADY RIGHT) HIS SENTENCE DOESNT BRING YOU BACK OR SOOTHE THE PAIN WE FEEL EVERYDAY THAT YOUR GONE,BUT KNOWING HE IS LOCKED UP FOR LIFE MAKES ME GRIN.EVERYDAY IS A STRUGGLE WITHOUT YOU,BUT YOUR WONDERFUL FAMILY,DESTINY,ME AND ALL YOUR FRIENDS WITH HONOR YOUR MEMORY.WE KNEW HOW PRECIOUS YOU WERE SO WHAT EVERYONE ELSE HAS TO SAY IS IRRELAVENT.YOU WERE SMART,KIND,GENOROUS,LOVING,CRUNK AND LOYAL.SO MUCH LIFE WAS IN STORE FOR YOU.WHILE YOUR SITTING UP IN THE CLOUDS KEEP AN EYE OUT FOR US ALL.YOUR PARENTSLOVE AND MISS YOU,YOUR BROTHER AND SISTER LOOK UP TO YOU,AND US FRIENDS SCREAM YOUR NAME AND THROW IT UP FOR YOU.YOUR FOREVER OR ANGEL.”WE WILL ALL SEE EACH OTHERS BEAUTY IN HEAVEN”..LOVE YOU MORE..

FOR ALL YOU LOW LIFES THAT THINK STRIPPERS ARE SO NASTY AND GROSS BUT WHERE YOU AT ON A FRI NIGHT?WHO YOU CHEATING ON YOUR SPOUSE WITH? NONE OF YOU KNOW WHAT A REAL DANCERS LIFE HOLDS.NOT EVERY PERSON THAT WORKS HARD IN LIFE STARTED AT THE TOP.I FEEL SO SORRY FOR ALL OF YOU HEARTLESS PEOPLE.I HOPE WHEN YOU SLEEP YOU HAVE THE SAME NIGHTMARES THAT WE HAVE ABOUT HER BEING F#%^ ING MURDERED.I HOPE YOU COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS AND PRAY THAT SOME MONSTER DOESNT STRANGLE YOUR DAUGTHER,MOTHER,OR SISTER..AND THEN WHEN YOUR GRIEVING STRANGERS TELL YOU THAT YOUR LOVED ONE,THE VICTIM DESERVED IT…..SHE WAS THE VICTIM. V I C T I M.SHE WENT TO SLEEP AND WASNT ALLOWED TO WAKE Up.

TO ALL THE MEDIA STATIONS..GET SOME CLASS.YOUR REPRESENTATION OF THIS STORY AND COMPASSION FOR THE VICTIM/FAMILY&FRIENDS LEAVES AN AWFUL TASTE IN YOUR MOUTH AND IS COMPLETLEY UNPROFESSIONAL.YOUR TITLE OF DESCRIBING A VICTIMS LEAGACY HAS OPENED THE DOOR FOR THE WORLD TO OPEN ITS MOUTH AND ALLOW TRASH TO DEFACE HER NAME,CHARACTER,AND FAMILY.IF THE VICTIM HAD ANY OTHER OCCUPATION WOULD THEY STILL DESERVE TO BE PUNISHED??

IF YOU ALL HAD READ THE ARTICLE IT STATED THAT HE MENTIONED SHE NEVER CHEATED ON HIM.SHE NEVER DID DRUGS EITHER.THE DAY HE MURDERED HER SHE ENROLLED FOR SCHOOL.SHE HAD ONLY BEEN A DANCER FOR A YEAR.ONE YEAR OF DANCING RUINS YOUR ENTIRE LIFE STORY AND CHARACTER?? FAR FROM IT.THE SAD PART IS SHE LOVED AND DEVOTED HERSELF TO THAT BOY(WHOM BY THE WAY DOES NOT HAVE PTSD,HE NEVER WENT TO WAR.PLEASE REFRAIN FROM MAKING THAT DUMB ARGUEMENT.YOUR INSULTING THE REAL MEN AND WOMEN WHO SERVE THIS COUNTRY.)
THOSE OF YOU WHO SAY IT WAS BC HE WAS JEALOUS OF HER JOB..KNOW THIS:HE LIED TO HER AND WORKED AT THOSE CLUBS BEFORE SHE LEFT HER LIFE IN GA TO BE WITH HIM.HE WAS BANGIN ONE OF THOSE CHIKS TOO AND LIED.SO POINT THE FINGER AT HIM.SHE WAS TRYING TO QUIT THE JOB AND GO TO SCHOOL.

NOTE:A FEW MONTHS AGO A STORY MADE HEADLINES OF A COLLEGE STUDENT WHO WAS MURDED BY HER BOYFRIEND-YEARDLY LOVE OF VIRGINA.EVERYONE SUPPORTED HER AND THE FAMILY.NO ONE CAME OUT OF HER SCHOOL AND SAID”OH THAT GIRL DESERVED IT,SHE WAS A WHORE AND CHEATED ON HIM..OR GOT WASTED AT PARTIES ALL THE TIME”….WHY IS THIS STORY ANY DIFFERENT?????????????????????

JUDGE YOUR ONE SH!TTY LIVES.

By: pheonix

pheonix — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 18:27:00 +0000

WELL WE ARE THE FRIENDS OF KALYN..THE TRIAL IS OVER AND HE WAS GUILTY FROM THE START SO FUCK YOU!!!! TALK SHIT NOW

By: Stripper

Stripper — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 07:15:41 +0000

Yeah she was never a porn star she was never Fired from goldfingers

By: Guest

Guest — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 12:25:53 +0000

Patrick was a great person, unless you were around them all the time like i was, shut up and stop talking about what happened. i loved both of them very much and i lost both of them. only God can judge him, and im not saying anything was right, but you people dont know what happened, so please just stop. I cry everyday because i miss Kalyn so much, but this is life and shit happens, as much as it sucks, shes lucky that now she doesnt have to live in this horrible fucked up world and deal with everything. And me and the rest of her loved ones will see her again, real soon. as for Patrick, God is the only that can judge him, the Lord looks into peoples hearts, he doesnt judge them by what they have done. i know what happened but i dont need to explain the story to anyone that doesnt know it, because it is not your bussiness. so please, stop talking about how you view him, he really was the nicest guy and she was an amazing person as well as him. And i was a very close friend to both of them and i was with them almost everyday, so i saw more than anybody else did. thank you.

By: Jeff1234

Jeff1234 — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 22:55:32 +0000

An accident??? Strangling your wife with a cord is an accident???

By: Captain Obvious

Captain Obvious — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 11:10:06 +0000

Nothing solid to post but it's been quite some time since I've updated this.

Patrick Poteat was due to be arraigned in Superior Court on May 12th. I don't have the results of that or know if the trial date has been set yet. Anyone with more information is more than welcome to update us with it, anonymously or not. Thanks.

By: ashley

ashley — Thu, 13 May 2010 23:52:45 +0000

well im his fuckin cousin and fuck you all. talk shit after the trial

By: Captain Obvious

Captain Obvious — Thu, 01 Apr 2010 08:32:12 +0000

Of course she had problems. Everyone has problems. Now her problem is that she is still dead by her husband's hands. What's your fucking point?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 21:28:23 +0000

he killed her. dirtbag…that's enough talk of good guy..that went out the window when he did what he did.

By: Scott

Scott — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 11:43:01 +0000

it was an accident…..

just like o.j. accidentally decapitated nicole……

sadly with numbskulls like this as 'character' witnesses and him being a marine we might get the same result………

By: nonega

nonega — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 06:36:02 +0000

Again you still don't have you facts straight he never hit her, she did the hitting, and no one was there to know what happened, she was neither poor or defensless, you really have no clue and should find your self a better hobby than running your mouth about something you know nothing about, She had her problems and took them out on him, for all you know it was a sex thing that went wrong. The Truth will come out and I hope all of her friends and family can handle it, cause it isn't going to be pretty. Good Bye no lifers, I have to move on to mine,

By: eric

eric — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 10:35:06 +0000

To nonga What if i do threaten his ass marine or not ill still fuck his world up if i ever see him and yours to defending a coward like that. Its easy to hit a female let the boys in prison find out about it and they will show him what a hoe is and vero babe you need a nose job because you look trashy as hell, sorry captain but these people really get under my skin

By: eric

eric — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 10:28:53 +0000

Okay Im sorry Captain, I forgot that its ok to brutally strangle a young defensless girl if she is a white trash hoe or a stripper. So he should be let lose in society again yo go and murder other poor girls trying to make a liven. Because as we all know he is a good guy. Fucking morons I do not care if she was a meth addict that sold every bit of her body for drugs a guy should never put his hands on a girl for any reason, its not our fault you raised your kid to be a killer. He knows he did it and he is going to burn in hell for it

By: Captain Obvious

Captain Obvious — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 07:03:32 +0000

My mistake about you being his mom, I made a bad assumption from your Myspace account.

As far as the rest I guess we will just have to disagree. I think I will take the existing accounts out in California for the time being.

By: nonega

nonega — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 06:47:55 +0000

Do you kiss your mom with that mouth. And maybe you need to read , no were does anything say I am his parent, I'm just someone who knows both of them and knows more about this than any of you asses. Your right Marines don't act like you say he did, That's because he is a MARINE.

By: Captain Obvious

Captain Obvious — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 18:00:43 +0000

I don't know what the fuck you are implying here but I'll tell you something. I come from a Marine family and Marines don't act like that. Fuck off.

By: Captain Obvious

Captain Obvious — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 17:57:59 +0000

Are you trying to say that police fabricated it?

By: eric

eric — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 10:59:07 +0000

To all the people saying he is a good guy yall need to seriously look at the facts, he admitted to killing her rather it be and accident or not he killed her. He got the cord wrapped it around her neck and choked her aand now he is gonna be taking it up the ass in prison. If he were to get real justice they would tie him up in the street and let that poor girls familt get a hold of him.

By: nonega

nonega — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:02:13 +0000

Again were you there did you hear him say he did it did you see him write anything NO so stop this BS now you have no clue.

By: nonega

nonega — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:00:43 +0000

Are you making threats towards a Marine….. Until this ends he first and foremost a Marine. you might want to watch what you say….

By: nonega

nonega — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 07:58:16 +0000

He had no problems with his emotions, he is a great Marine and his Marine family have always been where is heart is and maybe she couldn't handle being with a Marine, maybe you should check more into her back ground she was not the angel you are making her out to be.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 02:54:00 +0000

You really need to check you facts nothing has ever been said that he hit her in fact everyone who knew them said he had never hit her pushed her yelled at her, so unless you were there shut your mouth you know nothing.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 02:50:00 +0000

Is a Good Guy!!!!!!!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 02:49:00 +0000

Were you there how do you know that is true that he said it. You people have no clue what went on, or what type of person she really was, it’s very sad she is gone, but this is the UNITED STATES and if you have not been convicted you are not quilty. So stop with the 15 seconds of fame and wait for the facts ALL of THE FACTS, you know what they say you can’t believe what the press writes it’s all there thoughts not facts, and who saw it and who saw this so called note how do you know he wrote it you people know nothing of what is really going on. why not just wait and see……

By: victoriahagerguthrie

victoriahagerguthrie — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 19:25:46 +0000

You're still with him…for now, til one of my Hoe friends steals him away from you…***Laughing****

By: Candis

Candis — Thu, 18 Mar 2010 10:30:01 +0000

He f*cking killed somebody. Your plain out stupid if you think that isn't evil, dumbass.
Just because you claim to have known him doesn't mean that he couldn't have changed.
“Theres no way he could have ever done something like that!” Well you better believe it because, i dont know, he admitted it twice. What more do you need.
He should rot in prison. Never see the light of day. He is a sorry piece of shit. He is a sorry excuse for a human.

By: Luke from South GA

Luke from South GA — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 23:01:42 +0000

no guy who ever hits a woman has a right to be called a good guy. i've almost gone to jail before for standing up for a woman who couldn't stand up to her bf. if i, as a guy can control my temper, i don't see how any other could not. regardless of how “good” he was. He is lower than pond scum in my mind now.